Why Good Guys Love Bad Girls You're Falling For The Wrong Girl & What You Can Do To Snap Out Of It

Why Good Guys Love Bad Girls

You're Falling For The Wrong Girl & What You Can Do To Snap Out Of It

Hello Everyone

I have been dating this woman for about four months now. She's awesome — sometimes. The problem is that she's not always nice to me and constantly tells me things that are insulting (when I ask, she tells me I'm not her greatest lover and she's not in love with me).

 Not only that, she never makes time for me and always puts her friends first, whereas I would drop everything I'm doing to be with her. Not to mention I always pay for everything whenever we do anything together.

What makes all this so horrible is the fact that I'm madly in love with her and the colder she behaves, the more I want her. She's the best lover I've ever had and she makes me feel like a king in bed. Please tell me what I can do to change her, I'm going crazy.

Sincerely,

Jack

sucker born every minute

Virtually everyone has gone through what Jack is currently experiencing. Why? That's simple — individuals want what they can't have, and when that involves someone they're attracted to, it makes the game all the more enticing.

Everyone wants a challenge; unfortunately, sometimes people tend to get caught up in negative challenges. The more difficult it becomes to figure her out, the more intrigued Jack will become.

On top of that, the fact that she's slowly breaking down his ego only serves to ensure the chase. The meaner she gets, the harder you'll try to keep her happy. And don't kid yourself; she's well aware of her tactics.

she's selfish

Okay, so she's great in bed and she gives you butterflies in your stomach. But when you put things in perspective, are you upset more often than you're happy? Is she really fulfilling any of your needs (besides the lustfully sexual ones)?

Face it; she's a self-serving woman who puts herself before anyone or anything. Although it is possible that she cares about you, the fact that she treats you like a minion is a solid indication that she can take you or leave you.

Of course, chances are that she was a nice woman at one point and gave her heart to a guy who decided to stomp on it. After all, if the bad boy is resurrected in that manner, chances are that it works the same way on the other side of the spectrum as well.

Her spectacular vagina

where's your self-esteem?

Is her vagina really so spectacular that you can't use your brain to think about what's happening here? She's taking you for a ride to Suckerville and you're so blind that you've even volunteered to drive.

Take a minute to think about this relationship. Is she ever nice to you and if so, is it because she's asking you for a favor? Is the fact that she won't give in to your whims a turn-on for you? You need to answer these questions honestly.

Perhaps it's time that sex took a backseat and you focused on what's really going on here. This woman is using you like a dog uses a fire hydrant. You need to get a grip on what's really happening here and whether you actually enjoy being taken advantage of.

turn the tables

Jack, I recommend that you conduct an experiment. The next time she calls you at midnight to pick her up, tell her to take a cab because you have to be up early in the morning. And the next time she asks if you want to do something, tell her you're going out with the boys.

By turning the tables, one of two things will happen. First, she might become so intrigued by the sudden change in your behavior that she begins to chase you around; or, she might decide that she prefers having a sucker and leave you altogether.

If she decides to split, you have to believe that it's the best thing for you. No one wants to be in a relationship when there's no reciprocal respect involved. You need a woman who will love and appreciate you (okay, and she has to be great in bed too).

hit the road jack

I always ask people about how they would feel if their partner gave them a taste of their own cruel medicine. Only then can someone really understand the pain they're putting their partner through. Treating her the way she treats you will serve to teach her a valuable lesson (hopefully). Selfish people can only learn the err of their ways by having it spelled out for them.

Even if she does start treating you differently, it's obvious that both of you have issues in the self-esteem department that you need to resolve before you commit yourselves to anyone.

My advice is for you to start putting yourself first and leave her, but then again, if you don't, it won't be the first time that someone didn't follow my advice. Good luck, Jack.

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