Sex Tips From A Porn Director 6 Sex Tips I Learned From Being A Porn Director

Sex Tips From A Porn Director

6 Sex Tips I Learned From Being A Porn Director

Working in the adult industry has taught me lots about sex. I always used to think I was broadminded until I actually started working on films and realized that there was still a lot more to learn. I have always tried to take the

 approach that if whatever we're filming is turning me on then hopefully it will turn on the viewer. The reality of this is that everyone is turned on by totally different things and it can sometimes be difficult to cater for everyone's specific tastes. Many films are shot with the view of what the market wants with the aim of turning out a product that will sell so it will try and appeal to the widest audience possible.

Everyone who watches porn may think "I would love to watch it with my partner" but the reality is often very different. What you see on screen takes planning, good styling and make up, amazing lighting, a great location, good models who know what is required and can follow direction and, more importantly, have chemistry with the people they are working with. Your partner (whilst they may be awesome) may have a totally different idea of what they want to do in bed and may or may not be open to your ideas of what you think might be fun to do – plus you may find some things your partner wants to do just may not appeal to you.

In any case, before you romanticize porn and start thinking it's better than the sex you're having in real life, come behind-the-scenes with me to learn the real deal. This is what directing porn has taught me about sex.

1. Everyone Has Kinks

It is essential to communicate with your partner and to establish what each of you likes, what is off limits and what is not. Throughout your sexual life you may have been asked to do things you normally would not have ever considered and you also might be pleasantly surprised about what your partner might be open to doing. So you may as well ask the question. Suddenly surprising your partner is not always a good idea. Everyone has their ideal fantasy sexual scenario and those special kinks and it is just a case of finding out what they are. It goes without saying trying them out should be totally consensual.

2. On Camera Vs. In The Bedroom

Some positions look great if you are watching porn but in fact they aren't always the most comfortable or practical in the bedroom. There are a few standard positions that are used in every film: cowgirl (girl riding you facing towards you), reverse cowgirl (girl riding you and facing away), missionary or doggy style (girl is facing away from you), and spooning for instance. Remember that the more complicated positions you see on the screen aren't always easy. Some positions require lots of stamina and flexibility and, at home, comfort is important if you want to really enjoy it rather just making it look good for the camera.

It is also worth remembering many performers have been doing this a long time and have gained lots of skills and experience and have got used to some of the positions. You might find you need to do some stretching and be reasonably fit to do the same.

3. Be Prepared

Lots of things tend to happen whilst in throes of lust and sex; some of these are great and others may mean you have to replace things or have to pay for specialist cleaning services. Make sure whatever you are doing it on is up to the task you have in mind and not going to fall apart or tip over. Strange as it may seem it is not uncommon for furniture to break, normally at the most inopportune times. 

You also might find things are affected by bodily functions so it's always a sensible idea to have some nice covers that can be easily washed or replaced if you're worried about your favorite bedspread getting dirty (good sex can be a messy endeavor, after all). Also you might want to move any ornaments or pictures/collectables that potentially may get knocked over. Prior planning is important and these problems can be avoided if you think ahead and prepare your lovemaking environment in advance.

4. Keep Props At Hand

Make sure you have everything you might need at arms length. Whether these are condoms, lube, toys, wet wipes or refreshments. After all you don't want to be on the job and then need something and have to stop; your partner might not appreciate it and it may be difficult to get back to where you left off. 

5. Stamina Isn't For Everyone

What you see on screen has taken a lot longer to film (all day sometimes) so no matter how good you might be, you may find you might not be able to last anywhere near as long.

In fact, on a very large productions, for example a gang bang type film, a fluffer (someone whose sole job it is to keep the lead guy hard throughout breaks) might be used. Normally on porn films the performers will either prepare themselves or ask the female performer for some assistance to get ready for the scene, which is often done when camera or lighting is being moved for the next set up or when changing positions if required. In many cases it's not needed as the established performers tend to be good to go straight away; however, if there is a longer break then it can be necessary.

If you are planning a marathon session and need some Viagra (make sure your doctor say’s it’s okay to do so, though) take it a little while before you start as it doesn’t work instantly. Also bear in mind it might also take you longer to ejaculate.

6. No Interruptions

The most annoying thing is when a phone rings and interrupts the action. You really don't want to take a call or read a text message when you are concentrating on your partner so make sure your phone is off or at very least set to silent and somewhere that won't stop the action. You also might find that sometimes your neighbors might not be happy about the noise or sound of your bed banging against the wall keeping them awake all night so you might want to put some music on; at least it gives them something else to concentrate on.

In summary, sex should be fun, consensual and enjoyable and spontaneous. Don’t try and copy what you see in a porn film – create your own version with your partner based on what you both enjoy.

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