End A Relationship

End A Relationship

They say that all good things must come to an end. This Player has often refuted that idea, holding that amazing nights on London’s streets or the glow of Chicago’s Lake Shore Drive after dark can stay alive if fully

 appreciated. A great job can turn into a dream occupation, and lying with a beautiful woman can last forever if one stays in the moment. Sometimes, however, a situation calls for immediate conclusion. What was good has gone bad, and this Player has seen relationships conclude with broken hearts, damaged egos and wrecked reputations.

But there are techniques to make a clean break. These steps will help you end a relationship swiftly, respectably and with the class and style that defines a Player.

Be truthful

When it comes time to break up, avoid lying, even if it’s lying to ease the end. Forego lines such as “it’s not you; it’s me.” Granted, at times, the truth can be massaged and some situations do call for it. In this case, however, anything but the truth will prolong the process, when a quick and short end could suffice it. Skip long, roundabout tales of why things won’t work out, and outline the facts. Mainly, she wants one thing, and you want something else. You're headed in different directions, and, in the end, you two will not make a good, healthy couple. Do make certain that she is aware that there is nothing wrong with her or that her actions led to this end. Stress that this is about differences and incompatibilities, and not about mistakes and blame.

Drift apart through actions

This step is a difficult one to maneuver even for a masterful player; it is a subtle maneuver, not a sudden cold shoulder. It is about detachment. That’s key to end a relationship. Gradually moving away from regular communication (e.g. returning e-mails, texts, Facebook posts, and phone calls less and less) will eventually give her less fuel to pursue the relationship. Planning or agreeing to less dates and time together will initiate a drift in her thoughts and desire for your company. Also, detach emotionally so that the few times you two are together, there is less of you engaged. Remember, you have class, and you will not resort to ignoring her or provoking arguments. These are the traits of men beneath your station. This step is about pulling away from her, not putting her down.

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Avoid intimacy and romance

Starlit walks on the beach and staring into each others’ eyes over dinner will keep the relationship going (especially in her heart and mind). Realize there is a major distinction between lust and romance. While you may still want her physically, do not give in to any body language that leads to sex, as she will think this means an emotional connection still exists. You may want sex, but she wants a lifelong relationship. Once again, the fact is that you two are heading for two opposite goals and being together will not work, thus, you need to end the relationsip. Avoid the beach walks, romantic restaurants and sharing of personal stories, hopes, dreams, etc. By being more readily unavailable, there will be less opportunities for you two to have amorous moments. Go back to a casual relationship. When you two are together, remember to be detached and disengaged.

Bring in your female friends

Female friends can provide multiple benefits — especially when you need to end a relationship. One benefit is that it establishes that you are a man with multiple relationships with the opposite sex. Having your female friends (especially if any were former lovers) around you and your soon-to-be ex will give her the feeling that she is not “the one” and that your relationship with her is much more casual than she had hoped. Having women show up for lunches, dinners and outings where you two would have normally been alone will loosen the high-end goal of a long-term relationship. What was once serious now becomes more informal — and not what she truly desires. Be sure to avoid being cruel, as throwing your girl friends and ex-girlfriends in her face could easily become a rude and heartless move. Have them around her, but don't flaunt them.

is it over?

Singer and Player-extraordinaire Usher once said, “If you’re with an individual who isn’t moving in the same direction and at the same rate that you are, it ain’t going to work.” While it is tragic that this must end, it must not end tragically. Avoid breaking hearts and wounding egos; this is about moving on to what suits everyone best and not about creating newfound enemies.

Learn to end relationships with class, move on and don’t hate the Player

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