Personality Boosters

Personality Boosters

Nobody’s perfect. Based on impressive conquests that come early and frequently in his career, a Player might erroneously assume that no further training is required. But as the realistic pickup artist ages, he becomes more secure and confident and loses the cockiness. He analyzes the continually changing social

 scene, and, although it’s often humbling, examines his own strengths and weaknesses. It’s difficult to accept that we’re lacking in certain areas — and every human is — but perhaps the following list of personality enhancers will get you started. Even if you believe you already possess the trait in question, there’s always room for improvement. And here’s one final note to ponder: Somehow, women seem to be able to spot men who are willing to work on themselves. They notice it, and they find it really attractive.

Be direct

There’s an ailment currently sweeping like wildfire through the young male population. It’s the belief that indifference and a distant demeanor is seen as universally attractive (which makes one wonder if the early ‘90s grunge theme is making a comeback). Shrugging the shoulders at direct questions and giving noncommittal responses doesn’t peg you as a carefree, deceptively deep and artfully morose individual — it just means you don’t care about much about anything. Being direct doesn’t mean you unveil your soul to every girl; it means you look her in the eye, give her your full undivided attention, become actively engaged in conversation, and interested in her existence. This “yeah, whatever” attitude is not only childish but exceedingly off-putting in the eyes of most quality catches.

Fidelity

Don’t laugh. The Player has never recommended or even endorsed cheating, and this is for several obvious reasons. The true ladies' man relies heavily on a reputation that is skillfully created and cultivated, and he knows the well could dry up quickly if that reputation suffers. There’s a very big difference between getting a lot of women in succession and getting a lot of women at the same time. One results in sexually satisfied females who bear no ill-will toward you, while the other leaves a trail of bitter hatred and animosity, which will eventually become an impassable wall. Everywhere you go, women will know you’re nothing but a disrespectful lout with no real redeeming value and the best of the best will withdraw. You will be left with jilted divorcees and inebriated college girls, both of whom would likely go home with a broomstick if it showed interest.

Comedic appeal

“I need someone who makes me laugh.” Ironically enough, the funniest joke in all of romance and relationships is the fact that many women put “sense of humor” at the top of their most-wanted lists. If there is no initial attraction via physical appeal, the funniest man alive will receive the standard “thanks for the drink” and a polite rebuff. Even so, there’s no doubt a great sense of humor can give you an edge, so a would-be Player should always take a stab at being humorous. There’s a darn good reason why opening lines of conversation typically consist of a joke, but this will hardly separate you from the crowd. The key is to be spontaneously funny on a consistent basis, so she knows that whenever she’s around you, she’ll emerge from the encounter with a girlish smile. Unfortunately, some people just aren’t funny, so if you’re no Seinfeld, you should try another booster rather than embarrassing yourself.

Read on for more personality enhancers...

Chivalry's not dead

Gallantry and charm never go out of style, as this Player always says. Some guys honestly believe it makes no difference in this day and age if he holds a door, pulls out a chair or takes a coat. He believes that women, who have struggled so hard to attain the equality they rightfully have, see such maneuvers as a return to the oppressive ‘50s, where you would have expected her to be pregnant in the kitchen at all times. But if you actually speak to girls about this, most will say they never lost an appreciation for such niceties, and no man who treats a lady like a lady will be rejected for his “old-fashioned” beliefs. Of course, there are lines that shouldn’t be crossed — ordering for a woman has never been classy, but simple gestures, like walking on the outside of the sidewalk to keep her safely inside, always resonate.

Be goal-oriented

As we all know, one of the very first questions a woman asks is: “So, what do you do?” We’ve reached a point where it’s one of the first questions on a man’s lips too, but that still doesn’t devalue the importance of having goals. Girls look down the road every bit as much as guys, and they want to know where they might be in a decade. They want to ensure that you’re not satisfied with being an assistant manager forever. The bottom line is that you should be quick to outline your goals and lofty dreams; any show of real ambition puts you in a more flattering light. Having clear and determined goals says a lot about you, especially as it relates to potential relationships.

Exude strength

Men who hem and haw over big decisions fall a few notches in a woman’s mind. In an off-shoot of the chivalry trait, strength and firmness of character resonate instinctively to women. I’m not necessarily saying that all women want a “take-charge guy,” but the more you exhibit a quiet sense of firmness and solidity, the more you will benefit — at the very least, she will have more respect for you. You know what you want, and even when you don’t you address the indecision with a quick and accurate guiding hand. If there is a conflict of opinion, the strong individual calmly listens to the competing train of thought and takes it into consideration. It’s not about being stubborn; it’s about being confident and, in a way, trustworthy.

Be compassionate

If you can manage to be strong, gallant and compassionate, you’ll be downright irresistible in the eyes of prospective targets. Many guys consider themselves compassionate and sensitive, but that’s only in comparison to their peers. Women have very different definitions of compassion. Action represents the difference between the talkers and doers. It’s one thing to sympathize with the abused animals on that infomercial when your girl is in the room, but it’s quite another to go and adopt one. If your lady is sick, you can either call her and send your condolences, or you can show up at her door and give her some actual comfort. If you really think about that, you can exhibit compassion in a hundred small ways through the course of any given week.

it's doesn't come easy

Of course, these personality enhancers aren’t supposed to change your way of life, and, as always, they require some effort.

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